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Hubby is a bit of a party pooper when it comes to birthdays (ours, not the kids), something he will readily admit. He just doesn't see the need for a celebration. I, however, have often pointed out to him that I would prefer to party like its 1999, which coincidentally coincides with my having a good figure, and no gray hair. So thank goodness, Mary is coming to celebrate my birthday a couple of days early. There's something to be said for someone in your life that you can hear the opening chord of a song and start laughing together (I should really tell y'all the story of "American Pie" by Don McLean some time). We will kick back tonight the way you do with people that you are completely comfortable with – and that you will never haggle over an inheritance with. We will laugh until tears roll down our faces, talk until we drive hubby back to his man cave, and completely, completely be Mary and Evelyn, not wife, Momma, chauffeur… and it will be glorious!
A very wise woman once said that if you have just a few true friends in your life, then you are blessed. I am blessed that her daughter is one of my true friends. I had another kick me in the gut day this week sorta like what I referenced in my essay, “Miss NonCongeniality”. But I got through it… with a little help from my friends. As we get older those kick me in the gut days can happen pretty fast and furious, but the kick back days, they really, really help. So if you’re around tonight and you wanna see some serious kick back going on, stop in. My house will be the one with the music blaring and the raucous laughter by two women who do NOT look our age, and we dang sure won’t be acting it…tonight.
Listen to some Artist Formerly Known As...for me! Sorry you had a bad week. I know it's harder to make friends as I keep moving (we're at a record 6 years this time!), and the older I get, but that's because I won't just make nice and fit in to fit in anymore. And that's a good thing--I keep myself intact that way. I'm happy for the few I have, and glad you are one of them. Do a split this weekend! Take pics of Mary singing! Post them. Will be thinking of you.
ReplyDeleteHere's to having a well deserved evening with your wonderful friend - Evelyn you are an amazing mum, wife, friend and above all woman!! enjoy your birthday treat - you deserve! What tomorrow brings will be tomorrow's prolbem -- enjoy the now!!! xx
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday early! You know, when you reach a certain age you are allowed to extend the celebration by an appropriate number of days (in my case until I actually get a present) so I say start the party!
ReplyDeleteY'all are too kind! Mary is on her way, and I just wish y'all could join us! On the other hand, any postings made later tonight should not be held against us...
ReplyDeleteYou know what time of year it is, and that you would quote my Mama is the sweetest gift...and here I thought it was your birthday!
ReplyDeleteI hope your weekend of celebrating was all that you needed it to be. You're truly one of the most selfless and giving women that I know. I admire you for all of your strength, compassion and honesty.
ReplyDeleteAnd thank you for my grandmother's words, it's always wonderful to hear her advice shared by others. She was a wise woman too.
Mary and Veronica - my gift is the presence in my life of love, and that gift comes in the form of both of you! Women should provide support and love to each other...and cake, lots of cake!
ReplyDeleteLol! What a nice read. Happy belated birthday. I'm inspired by your declaration to party like it's 1999. Kids, hubby, good friends, and good spirits ... yes, you are a blessed lady.
ReplyDeleteMichelle, you are right. I do feel blessed...and a little tired from time travel to 1999...but blessed. Thanks!
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